Should I Kiss Her.....

Well.......we ve had our first date,and i didnt kiss her but ithink she was waiting for me to kiss her........i dont know,i didnt want to FRICK her out by kissing her on the first date. So she calls me and she said she d like to go out with me again,should i kiss her on the second date??? I dont want to freak her but i dont want her to think that im a pushy,and i love her so much....

ohh by the way,we are both 15

girls arent wierd. girls are like a rubix cube with 600 sides. impossible to understand but occasionally you get one right:P
this really isnt my area of expertise but if shes giving you signals that she wants you to then maybe you should? i dunno.
its worth a shot if you got mad apologizing skills if she didnt want you to kiss her:P what the hell. i say go for it!

neither had i:P but it seemed accurate. and you didnt argue with me so i must be right:P

i got ADHD. i make up crap constantly lol. ill make sure to do that

Poor AfroSamauri this isn't the help he enlisted for!LOL


*I said Good day*

nope but he at least got somethin

Nah.....its ok u guys,keep going,i wont get in ur way.

hehe. your not in our way at all.
we just got side tracked

so,what do i do? do i go for it OR not? and if i go for it,when should i do it,at the end of the day(a goodbye kiss) or in the middle of the date?

depends on what happens during the date. it might be suited in the middle of the date if you have a very very very romantic moment. but the safest bet is always the end of the date when you take her home

thanks for all the advice Dtox,really help me!!!

np^^ but dont get mad at me if it bites you in the pooper:P
im just saying what i think is the right thing to do.

huh^^,i think its gonna be fine. Anyway, ill say it again thnx for the advice Dtox and Safeheaven!!!11!

Here it is Afro. most people on here like my advice, and some criticize me for it. I call it like it is. so here it goes


This is just my opinion. If you have to ask if you should kiss her, then you probably aren't ready to kiss someone. With that being said i am not saying you shouldn't go for the kiss, cause after all you want advice not whatever i was going to give you.



If you seen some sort of sign that she likes you, and she told you that she wants to hang again, that would be a good enough of a hint.

Most girls tend to be old fashion and want you to make the first move. And since it will be the second date, she shouldn't be freaked out, she should actually be expecting it.


Now as to when you should kiss her. Don't do it at the beginning of the date or the middle. Wait till the end when you say good bye or sometime close to the end. Now i am not saying this to scare you i am saying it to explain why you wait till the end: if you attempt to kiss he at the beginning of the middle and something goes wrong, its not awkward and weird the rest of the time together. so do it at the end.



the only way you would freak her out was if the moment wasn't right. Now i don't believe in the right "moment" but you can't be talking about cheese and then you lean over and kiss her. It has to be like "i really like you" "oh i like you too" *kiss*, or "i had a really good time" "me too" *kiss" "goodnight" "goodnight" *kiss*


ya naw mean. hahaha, you are ready for it, just go for it have fun and don't try and think about it too much. just let it happen it will all come together. trust me



Good Luck Bro

DtoX wrote:

girls arent wierd. girls are like a rubix cube with 600 sides. impossible to understand but occasionally you get one right

that is the most awsome thing i ever heard...and you made that up? you should write a book of quotes.

thank you haven and wabbit:)

lovedoc. i got a small piece of advice for you.
as you know you and me have bin very much back and forth. one moment we are saying the same thing the next we fight cause i dont agree with the way you treat what ever the problem at hand may be or vice versa.
and i agree with you that you often give quite solid advice.
but you shouldnt start a post saying that. it makes you seem arrogant.
and i know that if it was me that asked for help and someone started a post like you did i wouldnt even bother reading it cause i cant stand arrogance. and most ppl cant really.
so stay confident but dont go overboard about it.
my guess is that youll probably take this negatively and go full frontal assault on me but you really dont have to cause you know as well as me that i couldnt careless and also this is not ment as an attack at you like i so many times have done. i just think it would be to bad if you where to seem like an arrogant person. cause no one listens to arrogance.
and i wouldnt want to loose my verbal sparring partner to arrogance:P
keep tellin it like it love.
i may not always agree with you but i do respect you.
peace out

Ok here it comes. hahahah



No I'm joking. I hope you know that I love you Dtox. hahaha. You pretty much know me by now haha and how i repsond to posts.


I didn't think it was that harsh (what i said in the beginning). I tell it like it is and that is better sometimes. All my thoughts and opinions come from personal experiences. And with my experience i learnt that if you have to ask about something like this, your probably aren't ready for it. But thats also why i said "that doesn't mean you shouldn't go for it", cause something like this will make you ready for it.


I know you are trying to help and I know you like to take it easy on people. I try to do that but sometimes i just can't help myself but telling it like it is, and that is why I think you are here, to remind me that all people aren't to hear things straight up


Peace

well you could have said it in so many worse ways but i notice arrogance very easily. either it was ment arrogantly or not.
i think your right. i do keep you in line when your pushing limits.
but i love the fact that you tell it like you see it.
and its not that i like to go easy on ppl. cause if someones being stupid or something like that i will tell them exactly how i feel about it.
but in many cases the tough love makes things worse. thats why i try to stay as neutral a possible.
so keep telling it like it is and ill tell you how it is when you step out of line.
that way it will be balance in the force:P

done deal cheahhh



so what the deal with the OP, did he kiss her or what. We need some sort of update so we stop spamming your thread