CJ
Mortal Soul
Posts : 48
Join date : 2009-01-21
Age : 34
Location : Ohio
 |  Subject: Potential Dad, Need Questions Answered !! Thu Apr 23, 2009 11:02 pm | |
| ok so a girl told me she might be pregant with my kid but the catch is the pregnancy test said yes and the Clinic said no so idk what to think she said shes getting anoter test done and im scared cause i cant support a child right now and neither can she and she isnt someone id like to have my kid with because me and her dont get along anymore but also there might be two other dads involved and me and her only did it once and i didnt uh, lets say finish lol but im scared from all of this and i need some advice and wutnot, please dont BS me | |
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Safehaven
Elite Soul
Posts : 198
Join date : 2009-01-12
Age : 33
Location : a place called somewhere
| | Subject: Re: Potential Dad, Need Questions Answered !! Thu Apr 23, 2009 11:19 pm | |
| Well you said don't BS you, so here is my non-BS advice
First, you shouldn't have sex with someone unless your willing to pay the consequences for it. You have sex there is always a possibility someone will end up pregnant, so you should be prepared for that but its not the worst thing that can happen. If she is pregnant then before you do anything you need to make sure that the baby is yours. As far as being scared goes there is plenty of help out there financially, emotionally, etc especially if your 19 like your profile says they have teen father programs that can help you with your situation. You need to stay strong for yourself and that girl, take it one process at a time. | |
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Rey
Legendary Soul
Posts : 682
Join date : 2009-01-12
Age : 33
Location : Stop Stalking Me!
| | Subject: Re: Potential Dad, Need Questions Answered !! Fri Apr 24, 2009 4:43 am | |
| - Safehaven wrote:
- First, you shouldn't have sex with someone unless your willing to pay the consequences for it.
That's all that needs to be said, really.. If you're not man enough for the out come, don't do it. But since you did it anyway, you have to take care of the baby.. That, or put him in an adoption house or something, which to me, is cruel. | |
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CJ
Mortal Soul
Posts : 48
Join date : 2009-01-21
Age : 34
Location : Ohio
| | Subject: Re: Potential Dad, Need Questions Answered !! Fri Apr 24, 2009 5:56 pm | |
| of course if its mine im going to take care of it and i wasnt thinking when me and her hooked up but hopefully she isnt pregnant and i am willing to take the but if i come out of this not being a dad i have learned a valuable lesson | |
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