I think we need to have a talk over MSN
but to answer the only worthy question i seen in there "is it wrong to car what others think?"
No its not wrong. Its normal, everyone cares what other people think, wether they know it or not, and/or whether they want to admit it or not.
What are people think is what makes up about half of our decision making. It is perfectly normal to care what other people think of you and what they say about you and everything.
If you actually think about it.
If you didn't care what people thought, what would you live for. I mean, some people say that they don't care what other people think, and there are some people who look like they don't care what other people think. But in reality everybody does care to some extent
-Nathan