Subject: How do you lift yourself? Thu Apr 02, 2009 10:15 am
There are times when i'm in the classroom or at lunch times when i see everyone else around me having fun and having a great time and I just don't seem to be having fun maybe its because i don't fit in that well i don't know. What i want to know is how do you lift yourself to be happy and posistive? i've got a few mates which is good but i often feel like something isn't right and something is missing sometimes i feel like i can't just let go of everything and have a great time. How do you be happy in yourself any tips? There are times when i feel "yep i don't have much of a life", i'm quite a social guy and have mates and can chat to girls etc but i just have a sense of loneliness and emptiness a lot of the time, i just want to accept myself and think ok this is my life and be happy with it. Just had to get it off my chest.
thelovedoctor Epic Soul
Posts : 272 Join date : 2009-01-25 Age : 31 Location : Alberta, Canada
Subject: Re: How do you lift yourself? Thu Apr 02, 2009 7:09 pm
Hey i feel like you are leaving something out of your post. Feel free to PM with a more detailed description of what you are feeling. I am able to respond better through PM cause its more direct and one on one.
If I don't reply right away, don't worry, i am probably reading it, or responding to it.
darko12321 Strong Soul
Posts : 94 Join date : 2009-03-03 Age : 33 Location : brisbane
Subject: Re: How do you lift yourself? Mon May 18, 2009 1:30 am
Well what works for me is i found skating makes me happy when im not realy fitting in but that me. Try finding a hobbi that makes you happy. With skating i feel so free and that i can just get away and have nothing to worry about just have with or without friend but its more fun with friends tbh. I love having a long day skating and then watching the sun set slowly.
meemai Helpful Soul
Posts : 16 Join date : 2009-06-01
Subject: Re: How do you lift yourself? Mon Jun 01, 2009 11:00 am
I'm the same but then I decided to lift weights run and cycle. Now I got some sports I like. I feel stronger in my body. Also mentally. Though I'm still the same as you. It made my dying wish fade away. You have to push on and not falter. And keep fighting. You have to get your head empty and start over. That's what I'm doing! I hope this helped you
Safehaven Elite Soul
Posts : 198 Join date : 2009-01-12 Age : 33 Location : a place called somewhere
Subject: Re: How do you lift yourself? Mon Jun 01, 2009 2:29 pm
I would like to second what Meemai said I noticed that you get a whole new mindset and you find strengths that you didn't know you had before you started. The Motivation you have to give yourself and the fight you have to fight just to keep working helps you in all aspects of life.
