I'm falling out of love with my girlfriend, but i'm falling inlove with her friend?

So here’s the info.. I'm 15, my girlfriend is 15, and her friend is 15. We all go to the same school, and i have the same classes as my girlfriend, my locker is also right beside hers. We started dating around 3 months ago, and I’m sure it wasn’t love what I was feeling because love is still a pretty sketchy subject, but it's the closest thing to love I have found.

I've always had a crush on her friend since the day I’ve seen here, which is about 2years ago and as I’ve gotten to know her and become friends with her, I realized I really, really like her and their has been some word of her also likeing me also.

I know I seem pretty shallow for wanting to dumb my girlfriend for her friend, but i have reasons. We're pretty much never able to hang out, except in school but I’m focused on my education then, and not on my girlfriend and the odd Saturday night. She has to hide her relationship with me from her parents. I just don't feel the way I use to feel for her and I feel really bad for that.

What should i do? Should i stay with my girlfriend, even though I'm not happy just to make her happy? Should I dump her and wait it out a bit before I ask her friend out? I'm so confused!

I don't want to live with the "what if" feeling.

If your not happy dump her for you not for her friend. And yeah I would wait it out and get a little closer to her friend. But your still young and you will always find new people to date. The main thing is if your not happy at all then make yourself happy.

Just remember that you are living your life for yourself. You live to make yourself happy. Thats it.

If this girl is not making you happy, you got to end it now rather than later. If you are dragging it on and on and wondering "oh, what if things get better" and "maybe she will dump me first". It no healthy

Your situation is common, because you like your girlfriends friend, but there aren't many solutions of there that are going to work. If you dump your girlfriend, her friend is going to be with her the whole time "making her feel better" because of what you did. which wasn't even wrong in the first place.

Now if you chose to do that, you girlfriends friend might not want to hang out with you at all. You might also be the cause of their friendship ending.

The only way i see it is: You need to find out if she likes you or not. Even if she does or doesn't, you still need to end the relationship with your girlfriend. It might be best that you find out if she likes you or not after you have broken up. Girls talk. ABOUT EVERYTHING. just remember that. anything that you tell is a female, is going to be know in like a day

Do whatever u want. Are the girls both hot?

I think that maybe you are not ready for serious relationship right now. It was the 1st thing that I thought of from such a small information.

But don`t forget that if that girl is your girlfriends friend that it can be pretty painful to your girlfriend.

Corefee wrote:

I think that maybe you are not ready for serious relationship right now. It was the 1st thing that I thought of from such a small information.

But don`t forget that if that girl is your girlfriends friend that it can be pretty painful to your girlfriend.

i agree, that would be a real dick move there...i dont think i could ever do somthing like that

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