So how do I ask her out?

Ok, me and this girl have been hanging out for a while now, been to school events and movies and such since September.

We've even cuddled on long bus rides home from our marching band competitions

So I'm taking her to a movie tomorrow, and I want to know if I can ask her out then?

I want to and I'm like 99% sure she really likes me. I just don't know how do to it. help me? How do I ask? What do I say?

sounds to me you did ask her out, you just need to make it a date. and if your that sure she likes you it should be hard

jackwabbit wrote:

sounds to me you did ask her out, you just need to make it a date. and if your that sure she likes you it should be hard

I mean, we're kinda just "hanging out" right now and aren't really an "item"... you know what I mean?

And I think you meant that it SHOULDN'T be hard and not SHOULD... lol >.>

Easy.

Most girls like guys to be direct. If you want to ask her to be your girlfriend (If thats what you mean by "Asking her out") then just ASK her.

Like this,

You: *Insert her name here*
Her: Yes?
You: Wanna be my girlfriend?

That simple.

I hope thats what you mean by asking her out. If not, then clarify. Also, Don't be scared about asking her. If she likes you as a friend now, she will like you even if she decides not to be your girlfriend. You will lose nothing from asking, trust me.

Remo wrote:

Easy.

Most girls like guys to be direct. If you want to ask her to be your girlfriend (If thats what you mean by "Asking her out") then just ASK her.

Like this,

You: *Insert her name here*
Her: Yes?
You: Wanna be my girlfriend?

That simple.

I hope thats what you mean by asking her out. If not, then clarify. Also, Don't be scared about asking her. If she likes you as a friend now, she will like you even if she decides not to be your girlfriend. You will lose nothing from asking, trust me.

I agree 100% with that statement

Remo wrote:

Easy.

Most girls like guys to be direct. If you want to ask her to be your girlfriend (If thats what you mean by "Asking her out") then just ASK her.

Like this,

You: *Insert her name here*
Her: Yes?
You: Wanna be my girlfriend?

That simple.

I hope thats what you mean by asking her out. If not, then clarify. Also, Don't be scared about asking her. If she likes you as a friend now, she will like you even if she decides not to be your girlfriend. You will lose nothing from asking, trust me.

Yeah, thats what I was wondering.

I did that once before to a girl, she doesn't talk to me much anymore, and we used to talk everyday. I just didn't want that to happen again, I'm just a bit scared I guess

your the king bro go get the girl

KING wrote:

Remo wrote:

Easy.

Most girls like guys to be direct. If you want to ask her to be your girlfriend (If thats what you mean by "Asking her out") then just ASK her.

Like this,

You: *Insert her name here*
Her: Yes?
You: Wanna be my girlfriend?

That simple.

I hope thats what you mean by asking her out. If not, then clarify. Also, Don't be scared about asking her. If she likes you as a friend now, she will like you even if she decides not to be your girlfriend. You will lose nothing from asking, trust me.

Yeah, thats what I was wondering.

I did that once before to a girl, she doesn't talk to me much anymore, and we used to talk everyday. I just didn't want that to happen again, I'm just a bit scared I guess

Then that girl is far too shallow.

Hey guys , I'm back from the movie. It was good, we saw mall cop. Its decent, not as funny as I had expected.

On a status update, I couldn't ask her. I'm sad, and a bit mad at my self right now

No rush man shes not going anywhere anytime soon, just look for that moment were you feel it's right. But be careful you don't want to end up in the friend circle... It can happen, so be more flirty and don't do things friends would do, do things a guy interested into a girl would do. Make sure she don't see you as a friend if you want to make a move on her.

KING wrote:

Hey guys , I'm back from the movie. It was good, we saw mall cop. Its decent, not as funny as I had expected.

On a status update, I couldn't ask her. I'm sad, and a bit mad at my self right now

No rush indeed,

Once you do decide to ask, you will feel really proud of yourself I'm sure. Not to mention you will get an instant confidence boost.

Remo wrote:

KING wrote:

Hey guys , I'm back from the movie. It was good, we saw mall cop. Its decent, not as funny as I had expected.

On a status update, I couldn't ask her. I'm sad, and a bit mad at my self right now

No rush indeed,

Once you do decide to ask, you will feel really proud of yourself I'm sure. Not to mention you will get an instant confidence boost.

I hope so. The 2nd half of school is starting up this week, and now we won't have any classes together. Its gonna be tough keeping in touch. Good thing we text

Brandon wrote:

No rush man shes not going anywhere anytime soon, just look for that moment were you feel it's right. But be careful you don't want to end up in the friend circle... It can happen, so be more flirty and don't do things friends would do, do things a guy interested into a girl would do. Make sure she don't see you as a friend if you want to make a move on her.

yea i ended up in the friend zone with this one girl and girls never date their "BFF"

kyle4thur wrote:

Brandon wrote:

No rush man shes not going anywhere anytime soon, just look for that moment were you feel it's right. But be careful you don't want to end up in the friend circle... It can happen, so be more flirty and don't do things friends would do, do things a guy interested into a girl would do. Make sure she don't see you as a friend if you want to make a move on her.

yea i ended up in the friend zone with this one girl and girls never date their "BFF"

Not totally true, maybe for some, but I have seen people marry their best friends before.

to be honest it sounds like you've got her in the bag dude.
and you seem to really care for her. So just be polite ask her if she wants to go out to dinner or the mall or something some night, and seal it with a kiss, BE POLITE AND DON'T FORCE YOURSELF ON HER.

Brandon wrote:

No rush man shes not going anywhere anytime soon,

Sometimes that could blow up in your face dont want to hang around too long someone else might catch her eye

Remo wrote:

kyle4thur wrote:

Brandon wrote:

No rush man shes not going anywhere anytime soon, just look for that moment were you feel it's right. But be careful you don't want to end up in the friend circle... It can happen, so be more flirty and don't do things friends would do, do things a guy interested into a girl would do. Make sure she don't see you as a friend if you want to make a move on her.

yea i ended up in the friend zone with this one girl and girls never date their "BFF"

Not totally true, maybe for some, but I have seen people marry their best friends before.

this is high school, you got to move fast. after high school you meet a single girl become best friends its almost custom to ask her out.

Remo wrote:

Easy.

Most girls like guys to be direct. If you want to ask her to be your girlfriend (If thats what you mean by "Asking her out") then just ASK her.

Like this,

You: *Insert her name here*
Her: Yes?
You: Wanna be my girlfriend?

That simple.

I hope thats what you mean by asking her out. If not, then clarify. Also, Don't be scared about asking her. If she likes you as a friend now, she will like you even if she decides not to be your girlfriend. You will lose nothing from asking, trust me.

REmo your a legend man. It wouldn't work that way wher i come from im afraid tho

its not like a movie where its just going to happen you have to go for it but dont force it let her think about if she says so and i promise if your good to her now you will be rewarded if you really want there to be an item then you have to ask

Brandon wrote:

Remo wrote:

kyle4thur wrote:

Brandon wrote:

No rush man shes not going anywhere anytime soon, just look for that moment were you feel it's right. But be careful you don't want to end up in the friend circle... It can happen, so be more flirty and don't do things friends would do, do things a guy interested into a girl would do. Make sure she don't see you as a friend if you want to make a move on her.

yea i ended up in the friend zone with this one girl and girls never date their "BFF"

Not totally true, maybe for some, but I have seen people marry their best friends before.

this is high school, you got to move fast. after high school you meet a single girl become best friends its almost custom to ask her out.

I was in highschool too you know. Moving fast is what ruins all highschool relationships. One of the persons in the relationship wants to go fast, the other wants to take it slow, problems ensue.

Too many guys are in too much of a rush to get a girlfriend and do the nasty.

For all the virgins reading, heres a secret from me to you. Sex isn't something to ruin your childhood over. I can tell you with complete confidence, that it's not that great.

Maybe I have more self control, I don't know. The girl I was with was way out of my league in the looks department, and she was experianced. So no, not something I did backflips for afterwards. When I lost my virginity, the next morning I woke up and said, "Todays friday, it's hamburger day". What I didn't say was "Holy crap, I should do that allot more often, it should have my complete attention for the next 4 years".

Catch my drift?

Don't be in such a rush to get a girlfriend. Take your time, make it count. If you honestly want to move fast, be ready to have allot of failures.

Remo wrote:

Brandon wrote:

Remo wrote:

kyle4thur wrote:

Brandon wrote:

No rush man shes not going anywhere anytime soon, just look for that moment were you feel it's right. But be careful you don't want to end up in the friend circle... It can happen, so be more flirty and don't do things friends would do, do things a guy interested into a girl would do. Make sure she don't see you as a friend if you want to make a move on her.

yea i ended up in the friend zone with this one girl and girls never date their "BFF"

Not totally true, maybe for some, but I have seen people marry their best friends before.

this is high school, you got to move fast. after high school you meet a single girl become best friends its almost custom to ask her out.

I was in highschool too you know. Moving fast is what ruins all highschool relationships. One of the persons in the relationship wants to go fast, the other wants to take it slow, problems ensue.

Too many guys are in too much of a rush to get a girlfriend and do the nasty.

For all the virgins reading, heres a secret from me to you. Sex isn't something to ruin your childhood over. I can tell you with complete confidence, that it's not that great.

Maybe I have more self control, I don't know. The girl I was with was way out of my league in the looks department, and she was experianced. So no, not something I did backflips for afterwards. When I lost my virginity, the next morning I woke up and said, "Todays friday, it's hamburger day". What I didn't say was "Holy crap, I should do that allot more often, it should have my complete attention for the next 4 years".

Catch my drift?

Don't be in such a rush to get a girlfriend. Take your time, make it count. If you honestly want to move fast, be ready to have allot of failures.

hmmm..i think that way to, thought i was just weird. I guess we have control over our sexdrive or somthing

Huh, I almost forgot this existed. Well, status update time!

We went to see another movie this week.
She had so much fun, she practically missed the whole movie, lol

I want to ask her soon, that fear just still keeps poking at me.
I'm trying to get over it

And about the recent topic about moving too fast and sex, thats not something I'm focusing on.
Not that I wouldn't want sex, I just don't believe in sex before marriage.
I can wait.

Ask her already. This waiting will only make her want to move on. If you don't grab her now she will be gone. If she likes you, she will say yes. I can almost guarantee that she will say yes. You have nothing to lose but a whole lot to gain.


Just ask her

Remo wrote:

Easy.

Most girls like guys to be direct. If you want to ask her to be your girlfriend (If thats what you mean by "Asking her out") then just ASK her.

Like this,

You: *Insert her name here*
Her: Yes?
You: Wanna be my girlfriend?

That simple.

I hope thats what you mean by asking her out. If not, then clarify. Also, Don't be scared about asking her. If she likes you as a friend now, she will like you even if she decides not to be your girlfriend. You will lose nothing from asking, trust me.

Does this works dude :S don’t u think she‘ll find it weird u going and asking her if she wanna be your girlfriend ? I am just asking , if it works then I’ll do it myself !

Haha yeah, I think if you approach someone like that she's gonna be like "................." while staring at you in a funny way.

I agree you have to be forward, but don't be TOO direct either, bring it subtle. In fact even though most girls (that I know anyway) like guys to be forward, they don't want them to be too forward either. Being subtle is really a lot better, because that's more romantic and all that stuff