i dont deserve to be happy

i dont feel that i deserve to find love and happiness, or that i shouldn,t get involve with an other person life cause i am not good enough for anyone at all, and i will be a waste of their time. some times i feel i just take up space and have no place here like i dont belong here. some weeks i just go with out caring about it and sometimes i will get depress and sad like buttiflies in my stomach and it will just hurt. when a female show some type of feeling towards me i tend to back off.

other than that i feel like i am a normal person i do have friends and hobbies. for the most part i am happy with my life and proud of all my accomplishments in life.

You just need more confidence in yourself.

Chin up bro, your not gonna find happiness when you're looking at the ground all the time. Theres an old saying that goes life is like a roller coaster, full of ups and downs but once you hit the bottom there's only one way to go and thats up. And when someone shows some feelings toward you, take a risk, that person might be the happiness you're looking for.

Frinkz wrote:

Chin up bro, your not gonna find happiness when you're looking at the ground all the time. Theres an old saying that goes life is like a roller coaster, full of ups and downs but once you hit the bottom there's only one way to go and thats up. And when someone shows some feelings toward you, take a risk, that person might be the happiness you're looking for.

Rollercoasters make me queezy.

Remo wrote:

Frinkz wrote:

Chin up bro, your not gonna find happiness when you're looking at the ground all the time. Theres an old saying that goes life is like a roller coaster, full of ups and downs but once you hit the bottom there's only one way to go and thats up. And when someone shows some feelings toward you, take a risk, that person might be the happiness you're looking for.

Rollercoasters make me queezy.

I have a little hunch that you don't mind the ups and its only the downs that make you sick

Happiness (I believe) is not like wealth or good looks...it's not something some people can have or get, and then tough luck to those who don't have it and can't get it. It says right on the Declaration of Independence: "That all men are by nature equally free and independent, and have certain inherent rights, of which, when they enter into a state of society, they cannot, by any compact, deprive or divest their posterity; namely, the ENJOYMENT of life and liberty, with the means of acquiring and possessing property, and PURSUING AND OBTAINING HAPPINESS and safety." THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY IS BASIC TO YOU AS A PERSON! I don't know how closely your happiness is tied to having a meaningful relationship (I'm guessing it's pretty important to you), but just remember...you have an inalienable right to be happy. It's not easy to be happy (I know), but it is your right. Exercise it! Pursue it!

Everyone deserves to be happy. And if your getting depressed go on anti-depressents I was on them for awhile and they worked for me.

you've done nothing wrong
from what you said

you deserve to be happy and even if you did
just move on and continue to be happy
cuz life is more beautiful through a happy persons
eyes

you are who i used to be.
every single word you wrote was like i had written them my self.
i hated my self more than anything in this world.
and i still hate my self but not on like i used to.
i dont know if it will help you but what got me to get over it if thats a correct way to put it.
i accepted my self for what i am. and i dont hide who i am. im not a perfect person but im proud of who i am cause i was never what someone else wanted me to be. im proud because i made me.
i still think that i look like poo and have bad personality.
but im ok with it. cause once i learned to accept who i am everything changed.
no i didnt become popular or cool at school. but i didnt shove all and any girl that talked to me away.
and i talked to my best friend about how i feel. and things just started to click more and more.
im not as depressed any more and i just got out off a two year long relationship.
and i used to think she was to good for me. but she treated me like poo. no one has made me feel better and worse than her.
but still i now feel like I DESERVE BETTER. and thats sure as hell a first.
so i dont know if it will help you but accepting who you are helped me.
and once you accept who you are it will be easier to change what you dont like about your self.
hope you figure it out.
and thanks for sharing.

every one deserves happieness