Ok, so, following from my other thread 'jealousy' in relationships, weve had a long talk, and my girl's problem is well, anxiety, she has it pretty bad, most of the time its just cyclic, like, she gets, scared of being scared? and then it jumps off from there..
personally, i dont understand it too much, i mean, I get it partially, and i try to be understanding, but i dont know what triggers it, or how the littlest problems, can become big deals over it..
basically yeah, I looked through some threads and i was wondering if any sufferer's of anxiety could give ME advice on how to be a partner to her, and help her through things, and understanding it, or if you are again, a sufferer, any advice you have on how to calm yourself down etcetera!
Basically any advice for her, or for myself, would be fantastic, as im struggling to, not understand it, i mean, when we are together, i can see it in her eyes, and i can hug her, and its ya know, its ok, but, we are stuck long distance for another 2 months or so? and we have alot of bumps in the road, to tackle, her uni, me moving there, finding work etc.. thats stressful for any non anxious person, and im just worried about her.
So, yeah, any advice would be much appreciated.
T
