This isn't anything i need advice for, it's about a relationship i had couple years ago. Just want to see what you people think about it.
Okej here we go.
About 3 years ago i met this girl Sofie. At the time i liked her and it grow in to love. Everything about her was perfect.
But after a half year in to the relationship she got strange. She could start a fight at any time and at any reason. She got jealous for no reason. I didn't deserve all that crap.
I then realized that she was a drama queen.
I took the crap for another half year and i tried to "kill" the drama queen in her. It didn't work so i had to brake up whit her.
After the brake up it was just calm in the air.
Until i met a new girl. Her name was Amanda.
The same week i started dating her we were out in the city and shopping and doing random stuff girls like.
When we went to the buss central to see when my buss was leaving we saw Sofie and she saw us.
I didn't see any problems because we did not have any fight after the brake up and just a few days before we talked over the phone as friends. There was no problem at all.
I was a fool believing that.
She and her man/girl friend named Emelie approached us.
The first thing she said was that i had sex whit her the day before, and that was a lie.
Amanda didn't know me that well so she didn't know what she would believe.
Me and Amanda started walking through the park.
And the thing i didn't notice at first was that Sofie and that big man like Emelie was following us.
All of the sudden Sofie started hitting me and taking my cap from my head. I'm not that kind of guy that hits a girl. Never. But damn i had to hold the anger in me.
She's a small girl so the hitting was nothing to care about. But it was frustrating. We continued walking whit the hitting and pushing in the back.
We walked through the entire city whit the screaming lies in our ears.
Finally we arrived at Amanda's apartment. So Sofie of course had to make a last stance before we went in.
She took my cap one more time and this time she did hold on to it tight, so when i took it back she flew down on the grass. (Not hard at all!) A half second later she stood up again and continued screaming.
We went in and it all stopped.
I got post from the police a few weeks later, it said assault and battery blablabla. I got choked. I didn't touch her!
A friend of mine saw her a couple of days later. Her arm was blue and yellow he said. And he heard from hes friend that knows that man like Emelie that Sofie went home after falling down on the grass and putt her arm in the door and slammed it a couple of times so she would have some "proof".
The police didn't do anything about it thank god
Sofie still tries to destroy my relationships whit both friends and family and girlfriend. But by now everyone knows what kind of girl she is.
You may think that i over reacting, that's not the case. There is allot of things, sick things Sofie has done. Believe me
It didn't work out for me and Amanda either but that's okej. I found a girl i want to spend the rest of my life whit. I did never imagine my self saying/writing that.
This is me and Caroline, she is an amazing girl!
Have a nice day!